Thank you 2020 

Thank you for the memories 

kindness 

 ugly tears 

 unstoppable fights

 endless laughter 

 hard lessons 

Yet this year has forced me to move beyond my comfort zone of having everything planned out to simply living and seizing the moment. Allowing myself to feel and learn the art of freedom and surrendering. One thing I learnt for sure is by giving you’ll never truly loose any. All your needs are being supplied just perfectly for you, so don’t worry dear soul. Don’t let the hurdles challenge your faith, be steadfast and take a chance to realize the numerous wonders that have filled the colours of our days in 2020. 

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Thank you 2020, we’re ready to move on to the next chapter... won’t sugarcoat and say that next year will eventually be better (things may be harder), even though I believed even in hard times there’s always something to be thankful for. Hold on tight to your Faith and let’s pray for a better tomorrow. Now that your perspective is shifted, we’re all ready for what’s ahead! 

Today let's take a moment to discuss about LOVE. I've shared about some of it on my stories a few days ago yet I decided to put it all down here... For you guys my dearest reader as well as for myself. Have I told you how much I enjoyed writing but somehow throughout the process I kind of loose my touch on it but I'm not gonna give up on something that I cherish dearly and enjoy doing. Thus I'll try my best to be back on track and update my blog at least once a week, so If you happen stumble on anything that you love to do but it started to feel less interesting don't just leave and jump over to a new interest instead rest and start again. 

Back to the topic of the three words, eight letters which could mean a lot and differently to different people. Some may think of LOVE as a need but I personally feel each and every one of us has that power to both give and feel love. One thing for sure is loving unconditionally is the best gift you could ever give to anyone, whether its a friend, family or your significant other. Don't love because of what they can give you, love because its your language of living. 

Not an expert in this field but learning through experiences I’ve felt love in different ways. Some are hard, some makes me laugh, some makes me cry, some are simply toxic. Love should be kind, patient and not judgmental. No, I’m not the most perfect human being. I have my flaws, mistakes and imperfections yet these qualities make me who I am. For me love is broad and in this context I don’t just mean love in the “romantic form” but Love applies for all. 

Have you ever hear the saying love your enemies? You can say its naif for someone to do so.. But living life I don’t see anyone as an enemy well at least from my side. We may disagree, have arguments, but that don’t have to mean we have to hate each other. There can never be someone who’s 100% perfect. Living means you’re continuously learning and in the process you’ll eventually get hurt or you might be the one hurting others intentionally or unintentionally. 

With that being said, I believe we can only hold on to LOVE. Let the patience of love be kind to us and people around us. Be so full of it that you’ll get rid of all the negativity around you. For me a peaceful state of mind starts with us, before I’ve ever been in the place where I blame others for what I went through, yet I discovered the issue is in me and not them. We can’t control others but we can control ourselves. So let go, and let love overflow all the other emotions that’s trying to drown you so you can learn to respect others. Find the break even and know LOVE means balance between loving yourself and others. Never lose yourself in the process. 

The word I Love You means so much more than the word itself, its about sacrifice, showing compassion, tolerance and willing to accommodate to the needs of others. It takes work and effort to make it not just words but meaningful actions. Saying it is easy but putting it into practice is the real challenge. When you encounter hard times and chose not to blame others but let love handle it with peace and kindness. Love sometimes make you blind and can't think properly but I believe Love is the key to all sort of problems we encounter daily, if we learn to silent our own ego and turn to love a lot of things will become much more beautiful.

Have you ever felt hurt? yet you still decide to love that person instead. I don't mean you have to force yourself in a toxic or hurting relationship or friendship. Find your peace and if it means being apart is what it takes then do it. Keep your distance but you can still love them from afar. Wish them well although the journey must go on without them. Love is kind and full of compassion that its able to do things you never thought you have the strength to do.When you look through the spectacle of life make sure love is in it. So you can be wise enough to love those around you.